Procrastination doesn't get you ahead. It puts you in the hole. It causes oppressive anxiety. And it creates more work for you
Think about when you get an email with an attached form you have to fill out. It’s probably tedious and has a distant deadline, so you ignore it for later. But then the deadline approaches and then passes and you get several reminder emails to return the completed form. So you do it, but now you’ve had to think about the stupid thing all those extra times, search for the buried email, and feel guilty. In a sense, you’ve had to do the work more than once. Or think about when you blow something off and then have to do it again because it’s ruined, or it takes extra paperwork to get an extension, or there’s a late fee. Why do we do this to ourselves? Usually, the thing I do instead is not worth the heartache of dealing with the consequences of procrastination. So much guilt and anxiety for what? A Seinfeld rerun? The headlines on MSN?
This recent realization of how much I suffer at the devious hand of procrastination is why one of my NYRs was to reduce it and is what I will try to keep in my thoughts so as to avoid it. It feels so good to get things done when they need to be done and then not think about them again. And to know that no one can bitch at you for not doing your bit.
I recently read in a magazine something like “you never say ‘gee, I wish I hadn’t done that’ after you exercise.” I think the same is true for doing things on your list. You never regret being productive. Productive, here, means not only getting work done, but doing the fun activities that we want to do. I noticed that an awful lot of bloggers wrote how they don’t want to waste time mindlessly surfing the Internet or watching tv this year. Me too.
14 comments:
Dr. Man always makes fun of me for checking the msn.com headlines :-)
For me it's the Your Money part of MSN.
It's a toss up between that and Hot Gossip (yep, I'm a dork)
Perhaps I'm more dorky, since I don't know what Hot Gossip is! However, it's a very good thing we don't have cable t.v., because I would spend all my time parked in front of VH1. I can't get enough of those gossipy count down shows and I love the 80s.
It took a year but I finally got tired of VH1! Never thought it would happen! Of course now I love the Food Network...
I am trying to surf less this year by disabling my wireless at work. Britney's crazy will still be there at 6 pm when I check people.com at home.
Check out & listen to the podcasts on http://iprocrastinate.libsyn.com/, no boring books to read, but you can pretend to be learning something while procrastinating :-D!
Hello,
Just slid into your blog through some slippery links.
Your statement "You never regret being productive" - very true, never thought about that until now.
Going to think about that a lot this afternoon! ;-)
I've just ordered my sister's birthday presents from Amazon's UK site - almost 2 weeks early! I'm off to a good start. (Late birthday guilt was a feature of last year for me. Just activated Google Calendar to help me out).
It's the "do the little easy things now to put off the hard, long-term things for later" that gets me most. Still not sure how to break that habit...
Have you read _The Now Habit_? It's probably one of the better books on procrastination out there. (and a quick/easy read, too!)
Note that I don't always practice what I learned from that book, but it has given me a new way to think about what I'm doing at any given moment.
oops, I don't know why that posted twice. Sorry about that!
So true--some portion of my stress is always self-induced by having put things off to the last minute. Having said that, I do often work better when I have a deadline bearing down on me. I think the adrenaline helps me focus.
I'll check out the iprocrasinate podcasts and The Now Habit. Tomorrow. Or the next day...
Sciencegirl, I remember being warned about that "avoidance behavior" in my first semester of grad school, but boy it is hard. That's partly what mean by giving myself excuses. I think we should call it fake working.
brom, welcome!
cae, good for you! I decided long ago to not mess with presents for my nieces and nephews because I knew I'd forget/be late with some but not others and you can't do that with kids. Thankfully, my sibs and I don't do birthday presents for each other.
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